A lot of guys want to know what to do to turn a woman on. That’s extremely important information. Knowing how to be seductive, having the right moves, and doing all the things that fan her arousal will help you get laid more often and leave your partner wanting a repeat performance. But one important thing that matters even more, and that is making sure you don’t do anything that turns her off. Some things can mess up her arousal or kill her libido in an instant. If you do them, she’ll have to put in a lot of mental effort just to keep going. And sometimes she won’t be able to get it back after she lost it, no matter how hard she tries.
Unlike what we see in romantic movies and read in dreamy novels, s3x is not always pleasurable and orgasmic for women. Not everyone moans, whimpers, or smugly smiles at the end of the session. There are times when women feel dissatisfied after making love and their partner might have no idea about it. Here are a few things that turn off women during s3x.
Fortunately, it is easy to avoid all that. Part of what to do is good and solid communication. Every woman has her prejudices. She might not be able to stand the look of facial hair against her skin, or she might think being naked looks ridiculous. Whatever it is, you won’t know unless she tells you.
But there are some obvious ones that you should assume will take her out of the mood. If you want to impress her in the sack and have her looking forward to the next time, avoid these.
1. No ForePlay
As we all know that foreplay is the foundation of a good s3x session. Rushing or skipping foreplay is always a turnoff for women as it is the basic move that turns them on and sets the mood. It helps in natural lubrication down there and makes penetrative s3x pain-free. Further, good foreplay is a way of expressing your love to your partner without uttering words and ensuring s3x is more than just a physical need.
2. Rough-Handling
There is a clear difference between wild s3x and aggressive s3x. Being over passionate might not just turn her off or get her injured, but it may make her uncomfortable as well. Make sure you have discussed the limits with her and your every move should be made to inflict only pleasure. In an attempt to go a little rough, don’t end up being aggressive in bed. A lot of women love to be fucked fast and hard, but there still needs to be a proper buildup to that point. A little bit of manhandling isn’t necessarily a bad thing. It can convey passion or feel intense. But going too hard can just feel clumsy, especially if a guy does it too soon.
3. Body Hair
If her body hair turns you off and you expect her to visit a salon after every few days, it is the time you think about yours as well. Having a dense hair growth down there, in their armpits or a few other places might make her widen her eyes in disgust and it might be an instant turnoff for her.
4. Not Showing Enough Enthusiasm
Of course, s3x isn’t supposed to be boring and dead silent. It should flow with moans and romantic conversations. That’s why it makes such a huge difference when a guy grunts, groans, and talks dirty during s3x. A guy who gives her filthy compliments while undressing her strokes her hair while she sucks him off, and fucks her like he wants her (not just like he wants s3x) is going to rock her world. When there’s no enthusiasm from his end, it takes her head out of the game. She’ll spend half the time wondering if he’s really into her and all the things she’s doing to him.
5. Dirty/Torn Underwear
It honestly doesn’t take all that much. Some choices are better than others, but most men’s underwear is inoffensive and just fine. The problem is when the underwear gets worn out. Boxer briefs that got loose over time, rips and tears in the fabric, and waistbands that have gotten slack are all going to make it a lot less exciting to watch his pants come off.
Often, guys complain that women are complicated when it comes to s3x. But I think that’s not true, no more complicated than guys anyway. If you want to avoid turning a woman off, all you need to know boils down to a few basics. She wants to feel safe, respected, and desirable. She wants you to show enough enthusiasm so she can desire you, too. She wants a little bit of excitement thrown in. And she wants her pussy eaten properly. If you’ve got all that down, you’ll get to enjoy the horniest and dirtiest version of her there is.
